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Did he mean no when he said yes?

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Question - (23 May 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have really fallen for this guy that I met a few weeks ago, I dont know him very well but from what I do know he seems like a really lovely guy! I asked him out a few days ago and he said yes!! but now im thinking maybe he only said yes because it was too difficult to say no so he just took the cowardly option.....

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2006):

DrPsych agony auntYou will find out if he is really into you or not after a few dates. Just go out with him and try to have fun, and not think about the whole situation too much. If you drift apart then you just weren't meant to be, but as a rule of thumb no one is going to say yes to you if they are not interested as they just wouldnt put themselves in a bad situation. Perhaps this is more about your self esteem and thinking you are not good enough for him? Just remember he said 'yes' for a reason.

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (23 May 2006):

Toria agony auntHas he done something to make you think only said yes as it was easier than saying no? if he hasnt then you are probably being a little bit paranoid as you have really fallen for him and worried he isnt or wont be interested in you in the same way.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2006):

shania agony auntIf you asked him out a few days ago and he said yes...then lets presume he meant it....now all you have got to do is plan the date together...whats stopping you?

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