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writes:hey there please can someone help!u see i really like this boy callum and we came friends through a sport that he loves too so we usually used to talk about it in lessons and we built up quite a good friendship. and even though he has a girlfriend i invited him to a hockey match cause it was my birthday and i asked him if he wasn't with his girlfriend did he think anything would happen beetween us and to my amazement he sed yes probably. so i said ok and a day later he told his friend what i asked him (even though i told him not to tell anyone) but i just got over that and now my very good friend harriet who i trust with my life said that she asked the guy i like if he enjoyed the match and he said yes but he told her what i asked him and he said that the only reason he said yes was because it was my birthday and she really didn't want to tell me but she decided it was best that i know (which it was) so in my lesson i went up to the guy i like and said " i no you only said yes because it was my birthday but now i see what you are really like i wouldn't say yes to you and day" and he looked really red and a bit down at first that i said that and he tried to explain himself but i decided to not let him. all my friends say that he does like me tho cause he looked down after i said that to him but is he worth it? he's got a girlfriend hes cheated on many people and i don't know what to do cause i think i've fallen for him and i really now wish i hadn't please help thanks so much!
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reader, Skeez +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Hes a kid..i dont know how old you guys are but if your still at school then, i imagine him still being a kid and quite immature. I doubt he only said that becuase it was your birthday. If he did then thats a pretty nasty way of getting your hopes up and hes quite deranged.
You had a talk with him (or a shout, im not sure) and im sure he got the message, but he didnt reply back to you saying..'no no i really do think so'. Some part of me says that hes just an evil little boy who tries to get girls hopes up then the other half of me says hes probably just a very shy boy, who didnt want to say he liked you and thought u two would go out infront of his class. Either way...sit him down and talk about whats going on. Get it all out of him. If he wont talk then let him be. Leave him alone and get on with your life.
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): He didn't say yes just because it was your birthday. He only said that because he was probably worried that the word would get out... especially to his girlfriend. Or maybe your younger? Young guys get embarrassed easier so they may not want ANYONE to know if they like someone.
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