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writes:ive been seeing a guy for about a month and a half now. but i had random concerns that he wasnt over his ex..they came from nowhere really but it just bothered me. i saw her out last night and text the guy saying id just seen her, then he turned up at the club. firstly, i dont know if he came there cause he knew she was there. then my friend went up to him without me knowing and was talking to him. she told me shed asked him about his ex and he said it ended with her ages ago! but then she told me that shed said that i really liked him and he seemed surprised.he was fine with me after and we talked and everything was normal, but then i text him to find out where hed gone at the en of the night and he replyed and asked if id got home, and when i text him back asking if he had a good night he didnt reply and still hasnt done all day. i now dont want to text him in case i look desperate.my main concerns are; did he come to the club cause he knew his ex was there? and has my friend telling him i really liked him scared him off and made me look needy and desperate. (i never asked her to talk to him). he seemed ok with me but then he was with some girl who i know and therefore know theyre only friends, but he then came over and was saying 'shes only a friend, dont think anything of it' when i hadnt even mentioned her. i just want advice on whether my friend talking to him may have jeopardized our relationship. thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Yeah, I like Uncle Phils' new concept....actually SPEAKING to a Real Human Being. It's a lost art these days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Im gonna tell you what I tell everyone that thinks there guy is still intrested in there ex. Its that theres a reason there called EX's its that some where along the road in the relationship something went wrong something so wrong it caused them to break up. You'v got nothing to worry about unless hes forgiven her for whatever shes done or has suddenly fallen in love with her which is highly unlikely.
All the best xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): I don't know. No-one knows except him.
Do you know, along with texting, taking pictures, doing calculations, waking you up in the morning and organising your day, mobile phones can actually be used to speak to people? You just select someone's name in your phone book and press the little green phone button. Put the thing to your ear and you should hear a voice sooner or later. All you have to do then is hold a conversation.
I'm surprised that more people aren't suffering from repetitive strain injuries of their fingers and thumbs.
Ask him.
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