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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello, Aunts. I’m in a relationship since last 2 months and things moved pretty fast with this guy. We are of same age and both financially well off. Since last 2 weeks he is behaving pretty aggressively and responded with cold behaviour post the second last argument. Things slowly changed as I apologised and make sweet gestures to take him out. Last Sunday he took me out to an amazing brunch where two of his male friends joined us later. I was meeting them for the first time and was happy that my guy is taking a step forward. One of his friends matched my vibe and we got chatty and he invited me to his upcoming wedding as a plus one to my bf. All of us danced to the music, my bf and I were too romantic, enjoying the sunset and slow music.We soon left the restaurant and then went back to collect his friend’s dog where I left my purse by mistake so we all had to revisit and take it, but we were in the complex. Post that we went to my bf’s place where the gathering would be continued. I was sitting quietly in his room (doors were open of course) and his chatty friend was there. We were talking when the dog suddenly broke a wine glass. We instantly started cleaning it thinking it would hurt the pup. At this moment my bf came in and asked his house help to clean it. All was good until after 15 mins he came and said to me “I need you to get out of my house”. I was taken aback and so was his friends and they tried to instill sense in him but it was no good. I bursted in tears out of shock and disrespect. However, the chatty guy thought of dropping me home and my bf hopped in the car too. After they dropped me, I have got zero communication from my bf. I tried to call/text him what went wrong. Got no response. His silence is killing me.. what should I do next? Has he already broken up with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2021): Girl,hes showed u his real color,be happy and move on with yourself cause ure stronger.dont text him rather block him!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (26 November 2021):
 All sounds rather strange to me, he sounds like a very up and down sort of guy that can change personalities on a sixpence.
In the past he has shown an aggressive side, by the sounds of it on more occasions than one, and you were the one that ended up apologising to smooth things over, when it probably should have been him apologising to you, this is controlling behaviour.
The situation with the wine glass was not your fault, it was just an accident that could of happened to anyone, his actions after are rather worrying if i'm honest, even his friend thought it was strange. Asking you to get out of his house over a broken wine glass, then not talking to you again, well this really should be a sign to you of the type of person he is, and not really a person in your life.
Don't go chasing him, by calls, or texts, or anything for that matter. Infact i would delete and block him, and think yourself lucky he is no longer in your life anymore.
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