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writes: hey everyone...well i know you probably heard this a lot but I want your honest opinion.. well i am 18 and have been talkin to this for about 7 months now.. we go to the same school but he acutally left the school since he had to finish his credits and got arrested which sucked... this all happened in january , but he got released the next day after..ever since he left the school him and i have been keeping in touch and about two weeks ago is when he finally stopped calling and texting me... on february 26 was the last time i heard from him.. i told him that isnt it odd that we dont talk often like we used to? he told me that he needed some space to himself.. and that he hasnt only blocking me, but blocking others as well .. i said ok and believed . but then about 3 days passed by and i havent heard anything from him.. he would text me on the third day though.. he has done it before... so when i called and texted three days later i heard nothig from him.. and never got back to me...so far its been about two weeks and including this day and nothing at all? do you think he has forgotten about me or decided to stop talking to me for sure? him and i are close friends but share a stron emotional connection as well.. ive spoke to others about it and they say maybe he is busy talking to another girl and stuff.. yea that could be true .. but also i dont think he would completely ignore me for two weeks cuz of that you know? i know him and the longest we wont talk is 3 days...anyways i know he doesnt need his space because like two days ago he has been tweetig on twitter and talking to his friends.. not mainly girls but all o his guy friends... so i know he has been on his phone.. why do you think he is doing this? the last time we spoke we were good and he said ill talk to you later and stuff and i could tell by the tone of his voice that thins were good.. anyways i tried calling yesterday and his phone was disconnected and yes ive tried calling before but only once and it has rang..so he has seen my missed call.. it got disconnected on monday since that was the last time i called.. but when it gets reconnected, i am going to call one more time to see if he answers and if he doesnt i will delete his number... but why is he acting like this? do you think he really decided to cut me out of his life? will i hear from him again.. sorry dont mean to sound like this .. but we are really good friends and its not normal for him to do this.. what is your hoest opinion? thank you :)
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reader, llifton  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 he cut you out of his life. people's actions are black and white. as humans, we try to justify and rationalize people's behavior to fit what he want the truth to be. such as "maybe he's just going through a lot", etc. but think about it. you like him, right? would you ignore him for two weeks? there's no chance. you'd make sure you contacted him. that's because you care and are invested. he didn't. and there's no vague explanation like maybe he's just busy or is needing space, etc. if he wanted to contact you, he would. end of story. stop trying to rationalize his behavior.
he may contact you again, but i would consider whatever you two were prior to his disappearance over. doubtful he'll start texting and calling every day like before.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 March 2013):
I'm sure you'll here from him and he'll have a good reason for not calling you. But there's no way for anyone to answer your questions but him.
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