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writes:Okay, I am kind of confused about this whole situation.I went out on Friday night and met up with my friend, we was out drinking and when we get together we always end up kissing. But on Friday we ended up having sex, everything was cool and he told me to call him the next day about going clubbing. So yesterday morning I text him asking if him and a few others are still going out and he text me back saying that he's not interested in having relationship and stuff like that. So i am confused, I don't want a relationship with him, what happened was just sex between friends.Do you think what happened has possibly messed up our friendship or do you think he may have regretted having sex?
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (8 August 2010):
Maybe the idea of sex without a relationship is a foreign idea to him. Maybe he assumes the idea is foreign to you. Anyway, I think you can just set him straight and say that sometimes relationships don't have to go with the sex. Sounds like you have a healthy attitude and you can open this guy up.
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reader, James_Michael +, writes (8 August 2010):
 It's possible he regrets having sex with you. Or he may just be trying to get the message across before you get too attached to him just incase. Because evidently your 'good' friends, he wouldn't wanna lose that bond and doesn't wanna lose you through you falling for him after having intercourse with him. Just make it clear in return that you don't want a relationship either and he will be comforted in that you don't want to take your "friends with benefits" relationship any further either. I hope I helped. Keep me updated :) x
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