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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem with dating, im over 20 now but cant speak of any relationship at any point in my life; though i've made some attempts before it all lead to nowhere as we crash even before we start. Its a long story but plz, bear with me and advice. The very first staterd in 2009 but crashed after 3 months because my gf asked for sex which i wasn't ready for (i wasn't sure of the outcome because i havn't tried it before). The second girl said i wasn't paying her much attention (im too cold). The last was a friend i loved so much and managed to convinced into the relationship and we've also fallen apart. I hav'nt had sex before (though i'm 22 and i'm afraid to) and they keep complaining i'm too cold (emotionally). Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (2 August 2011):
 you're not emotionally cold or else you wouldn't care about this and be here asking for help. you are maybe not as affectionate as they would like, maybe they just want too much coz they are needy or maybe you could do with being a bit more relaxed and open. this comes with confidence in yourself and being confident with the partner you are with. you are what you are, if you are being asked to change your personality then you are just not right for that girl.
build your confidence, do things sometimes that bring you out of your comfort zone
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