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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months, and we still have yet to kiss. We cuddle and stuff, but he just won't kiss me. When I ask him about it, he trys to change the subject and such. I know this wouldn't be his first kiss, but why is he so nervous about kissing me?
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Maybe he doesn't like kissing? My ex hated kissing. He did it once in a blue moon and only cause I made such a fuss about it..
You need to figure exactly why he doesn't want to kiss you. It's important to communicate with him and understand. Try asking in a different way. Be gentle and sensitive when asking. Don't push him.
Good Luck!
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reader, Lovemeright11  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 he is either very afraid he is going to screw up or maybe he is with someone else and feels if he kisses you that officially means he is cheating. Its a very small possibility so I would go more with the he is afraid he is going to screw up, so try to reassure him that your not going to judge him and that he needs to relax he is safe with you and even if something about the first kiss is wrong you will tell him but its not the end of the world and you are not judging him in anyway all things like kissing and sex can be fixed and tweaked if its not feeling right no reason to freak out about it.
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