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writes:I met this guy a few months ago and he really likes me I ended dating him out of sympathy and well I met his friend a week ago. My mom doesn't want me with him and she has met his friend she likes his friend and so do I but he is in love with my best friend and she really likes him. Whenever I'm around him I just wana be with him no one else but I cannot because my boyfriend is always around and so is my best friend. How do I go about handling the situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): u shouldnt date someone out of sympathy-experience is a helper...i was the victom. as 4 the other problem ur on ur own.
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 First, you need to break it off with currant bf. Never date someone out of sympathy. It may seem like you are a good person at first, but you actually seem like a worse person when you have to break it off. However, your currant bf has a right to have the freedom to find love elsewhere, if he wont get it from you. So do that, like today! Second, I'd get more info on your friend as far as how attatched she is to the other guy. If she is truly your friend, you wont cut in if she really has feelings. Guys will come and go, but a good friend is rare, and will last a lifetime (unless she steals your man ad direspects you, hint-hint). Make good choices, be a good person, do what is right, and the world will do the same for you.
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