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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok so theres this guy who likes me and has made it clear that he likes me however i have never been in this situation before and am having trouble knowing how i feel i kinda feel numb and not sure if i have feelings for him back, i like spending time with him and we get along well so there shouldnt be a problem but im nervous about everything cus it is all new to me and i think this is getting in the way of me knowing how i feel. i just dont seem to feel anything is there something wrong with me? is there anyway i can get over this and work out what feelings for someone else are? please any help is greatly apprieciated Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 I agree with blonde30s. All you need to do is to take things slowly and get to know him more. Don't be scared to tell him that you are unsure of your feelings for him at the moment, but you want to get to know him more to see if there is anything there. But yes of course you need to be physically attracted to him as well. So ask yourself do you fancy him and could you see yourself with him. Most importantly don't put pressure on yourself to feel something that is just not there, as long as you are straight with him from the start well then he will know where he stands. Don't rush these things, you are probably stressing because you don't know how you should be feeling, but as long as you are comfortable and you are enjoying his company well then that is a good start.
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