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writes:Ok so I started dating this girl, which she just ended a relationship. This is my first for me and I really like this girl. So 2 months in, she is still talking to her ex on a regular basis. He fills her head up that he is sorry and that he wont do it again. That he loves her and all this stuff I would say to her. I'm afraid she will fall for it! I ask why she still talks to him if she doesent want him involved in her life but all I get is "I dont know, honestly." Help please! Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): Ok well i'm the one that wrote this and I told her about how I feel like im being "cheated on" because she dragged her ex into this new relationship with me, so there is me, and her but her ex too. She went a little mad, but then said... Alex is the girl just so you know. I'm Traivs haha.
"(10:18 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: honestly im done talking about this,
(10:18 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: i dont care anymore
(10:19 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: i wont talk to tom,
(10:19 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: ill forget him,
(10:19 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: forever
(10:19 PM) ×÷·.·´¯`·)»Travi: yeah i wish you would do that but now im going to feel bad because you will get mad at me!
(10:20 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: y?
(10:20 PM) ×÷·.·´¯`·)»Travi: you have been defending your title with you and him up to now but now your giving up? your obviously mad? or am i wrong...
(10:21 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: i dont care anymore,
(10:21 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: if u want me to "change" for u i will
(10:22 PM) ×÷·.·´¯`·)»Travi: if "change" is forgetting about an ex then ok
(10:22 PM) ×÷·.·´¯`·)»Travi: will it have any "changes" on you?
(10:22 PM) ? ¤ [?] Alex xx: i dont think u get how hard it is to talk to not talk to my best friend ever again
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And the rest is just talk talk. She promised she would forget about him and not talk to him again. Lets see how it will work out! :O
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): You have every right to be concerned. If she broke it off with him, it should be over between them. Which means no communication. I feel if they are still in contact, there must be something still there. For one thing...she should have NEVER gotten into another relationship so soon after a breakup. It doesnt matter that shes the one that ended it. Maybe you were a way to get back at her ex for whatever he did to her to make her break up with him, but whatever the circumstances were...you need to give her an ultimatum. She either needs to stop talking to her ex (because she has a new bf now)or tell her you will have to break up with her, because she isnt being fair to you, or your feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): hi,trish here
i can under stand how you feel i went thriugh the same up 2 six months ago..
in my mind i don think she still loves she just has to talk bout him until everything is said and she has nothing else to say..soon she'll see your not interested in him and she'll she'll stop talking about him...
well hopes everything goes well 4 you xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): hi,trish here
i can under stand how you feel i went thriugh the same up 2 six months ago..
in my mind i don think she still loves she just has to talk bout him until everything is said and she has nothing else to say..soon she'll see your not interested in him and she'll she'll stop talking about him...
well hopes everything goes well 4 you xxxxx
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