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writes:Hi, I'm a 14 year old female living in the UK, I go to secondary school and a few months ago we asked the teachers whether were allowed to have some sort of prom, the teachers agreed after some discussions. The prom was like for raising money for the poor in Africa. Me and my mates helped out a lot with everything, organisation, decorations etc.. then it was close and the teachers insisted for me and my mates to go as we done a lot of helping out and came after school extra, so we thought we might as well but we had to find someone to go with and there was some I had in mind it was a boy I like (call him Tom) well I was going to ask him but then his mates said to me that he needs to talk to me about something after school, so I was going towards were he said to meet until this other boy that I kissed like when I was 11 years old came up to me (call him Jack) and he started talking to me and then asked me to go with him. I hadn’t said yes but then he just suddenly said pick u up at 5:00pm. Then Tom asked me and I had to say NO! because I didn’t want to lead two people on when I’m only one and can go with one, but for days I tried chasing up Jack and telling him that I don’t want to but each time he’ll ignore me, pretend I wasn’t their or act like he had something to do when he hadn’t. So in the end I ended up going with Jack and me and my mates were talking and then Jack pulled me to aside and then told me he liked my best mate, then he start saying how he got over me, and why? Then he said how he started liking my best mate, etc.. and he was saying all these things a girl really doesn’t want to know, anyways I was angry cause like come on does a girl really want to know how a boy got over her ermm I don’t think so and I defiantly don’t want to know. Then he finally asked if it was ok for him to ask my best mate I said yes because I was fine with that it was the bit when he was telling me how he got over me step by step. Then suddenly a questioned popped up he asked about if me and Tom had kissed and if were going out and if we’d had sex etc.. I was shocked for him asking all these questions because the way he sounded was I go out with a person for a couple of weeks then start getting active and jump in bed with them. I told him it isn’t any of his business and for his information the answers NO for all the questions. And I walked off because he got on my nerves, at this point I could have slapped him but I walked off, then Tom saw me angry and he came up too me and asked what happen with Jack what he say etc… I told him nothing and he go it can’t be nothing if am sooo angry, then I told him and then Tom was shocked as well cause me and him weren’t even going out or anything we like each other and that’s it, and also what Jack said made it sound like I’m some sort of slapper, me and Tom were dancing and then Jack came up to me and never said sorry but was insisting to dance and then we did but I was still angry at him and he was trying to touch me down below like hips I moved cause if I don’t let Tom touch me their then what wright does he have. Jack was flirting with me and I told him to stop, and I asked him why he asked me to the prom and not my best mate he never said nothing went off after a while came back seeming all drunk and got worse and was all over the place tried kissing me but obviously I never let him told him to do one. Then he picked e up and I screamed at him kicking etc… and then he put me down after like 10 minutes, I slapped him and walked off every time now he flirts with me trying to get Tom jealous, what am I meant to do, every time Tom comes up to me and we talk and like if I laugh smile Jack will coming butting in like he some flaming prince charming. What can I do to let Jack of my case?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): thanks for the help, and i'm not sure if he was drunk or pretending to be but he seemed to be hyper and going all over the place and that's when he picked me up so i kicked and screamed.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 April 2008):
If he won't leave you alone then threaten to tell a teacher on him. Tom will back you up that this guy is practically stalking you.
The fact that he grabbed you and tried to touch you is technically assault.
Talk to Tom and your friends about what this psycho is like and then they can help you avoid him and tell him to leave you alone. Tom sounds like a nice guy so stick with him and ignore Jack.
This Jack is not acting normally, and it could get worse if he is having serious problems. You said he disappeared and then came back drunk? If he is drinking or on drugs then he is dangerous, and is not in control.
Stay away from him and threaten to tell on him. If he doesn't stop then talk to a teacher about it. You'll be doing him a favour as he probably needs help.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Tell Jack to stay out of you affairs.In my opinion, he realy likes you! I dont think he likes your mate, he was just trying to make you jealous. He's probaly a forward going cocky guy who thinking he can get anyone, and now he's determined to have you! Look, just try and get together with this Tom guy, then Jack will know he cant have you, and if he tries anything then you will have Tom to stop him. And also, if you like Tom, TELL HIM WHATS GOING ON. So he doesn't get the wrong idea about you. Good luck hun, message me if you wanna talk xxxxxxxxx
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