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writes:On our second date he" forgot " his wallet, and for our 3rd he wanted to reschedule because he said he was sick, how should I have reacted/ responded? Reply to this Question
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (26 September 2011):
Say " feel better " and I'll talk to you later. Now HE needs to contact you for the 4th date. He should feel like a jerk after "forgetting" his wallet and should be going out of his way to make it up to you. Do not contact him again - he needs to initiate. If he doesn't then he's just not interested.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 September 2011):
 Hmmm, I don't believe anyone forgets their wallet.
However, if he is sick tell him fine and ask him to call when he is feeling better and has a date in mind. But.. I will say this, if he forgets his wallet again... I would tell him to forget my number.
That is just tacky. He could have asked you to go dutch, but not paying at all? tacky tacky tacky.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 September 2011):
 How did the first date go?
On the second he forgot his wallet, so I'm assuming you paid for everything? How did the date go besides that?
He forgot his wallet, and he was sick but wanted to reschedule. Sounds like it could potentially be true. Stuff happens all the time.
If you feel chemistry with him, then I'd let him reschedule with date number 4 and make up for the other dates.. But if you feel like these are pitiful excuses causing him to lose points with you, then I would tell him there won't be a 4th date.
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