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*asonSimmons
writes:Hi Jason here,My problem is that I really love someone and they want to go out with me. Fime, but not now because she doesn't want to go out with anyone at the moment. Fine, but the same day I asked her out, on Facebook another girl asked me out. So I tell the other girl No, but she insists. So I talk to the 1st girl and we decide that she would wait for me and I would go out with the other girl. The problem is I can't tell the other girl that I love her because I love the 1st. What should I do?Jason
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Okay jason.
The best thing to do in my oppinion is to ask yourself a couple of questions. Question one: Do you love Girl 2? If not, then you shouldnt be seeing her! Because really, what's the point in dating someone you dont love? Think about that one.
Second question: If girl 1 wants to be with you, why ISNT she with you? Okay, so she wants to stay single for a while, like you said, fine. But if this girl was really interested in you, wouldnt she have made you her's by now? Think about that one too.
I guess what im trying to say is this: If you love girl 1, dont be afraid to chase after her. And dont break girl 2's heart when girl 1 has had enough of the single life, okay?
I hope that i have helped your situation. Any feedback would be nice as this is my first answer.
Bye, from A x
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