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writes:i am 22 years old and i am madly in love with my neighbour!!! he always kept asking me whether i am dating anyone and i assumed that he has a crush on me also!! then one day he said he is in a relation with a girl and so i was a bit heart broken! i avoided him for sometime and then after a few months he comes back in my life telling me that he wants to hang out with me!!! he seems geniunely caring and takes me out to many places ! the problem is that , he still is with that girl!! i am always worried and hoping that he ll choose me over her but i don t think thats happening!! i am becoming obessed with him!! he replies to my msg s late and i get insanely jealous when she writes on his FACEBOOK wall!!! i love him!! but what do i do now???
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): hi i am in a similar situation like yours..
he has a girlfriend and he told my best friend that he would be with me if he was single and unfortunately he is not so i can under stand you..please msg me if u want to talk abt it
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): ok, right now i am in the EXACT place u are. i love this guy who has a girlfriend...wat i suggest doing is have a girls day with all ur closest girl-friends, have a spa day or something, BUT make sure the day is all about you. make yourself over into a new and improved u. but, ask to hang out with the other girl and him sometime, and see what he says, and how he acts around both of you. find out what shes like and try to be more like her, then wen u have ur girls day make yourself over to be more like her, but remember to stay yourself 2! good luck :)
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reader, MizzGuyana  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 I have never been in this position so I don't know how you are feeling. Maybe there is something missing in his relationship that he gets when he is with you, but he still wants to work things out with her. If he wants to be with you, he would have left his girlfriend by now. He might just like your company. I think you should talk to him, tell him how you feel and ask him 'where is this relationship/friendship going?'. He seems like a nice perosn but its not nice to be led on. If you are intimate with him or planning to get intimate with him, I suggest you don't because if he chooses her, you will be heartbroken.
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