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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all! Happy Holidays!! I need advice please. I'm dating again after an 8 year relationship. I've been single for the last 3 years finishing college and getting on my feet. I'm 30 now and dating has really changed in my eyes. also, I was so young the last time I as single that it's totally different mindset that I have. I'm going on a date tonight and I really need some tips. What sort of questions should I ask to get to know this guy and what his intentions are? I do not want any one night stands or a serious relationship right away. I'd like to have fun but not find myself in any drama. I set some ground rules like not having more than 1 drink since I'm driving myself to the restaurant. Thanks agony aunts/uncles
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (26 December 2011):
 Hiyaaa,Firstly be yourself honey, that is all I can say.Question wise, don't be to noisy let everything flow smoothly and don't be curious! Curiosity kills!I read this psychology book and that asking interesting questions that people on a date wouldn't normally say can give you a second date.Some of the questions are like "if you could be a pizza topping what would you be and why?"Something like that, not to noisy but more of a thinking process.Ask him hobbies, tell lots of stories, keep conversation flowing and EYE CONTACT!!!!!!!! So important! Laugh at his jokes even if they're not funny! Well try to at least! :D Talk about amibitions, favourite things, what you're last meal would be or if the world was gonna end tomorrow how would you life your last life, just interesting thinking questions. But don't try to hard and be yourself honestly be yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!Don't think of this person that you're on a date with as a date, think of it as you're friend. Also SMILE very important, smiling all the time can help you get more favours too.Hope my advice helps!Good luck with your date!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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