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writes: Ok, this may sound messed up but it goes like this..I basically met this girl who is an escort...I paid her for sex twice. I have used escorts for a few years, and I never thought too much about it.Anyways, to cut a long story short I ended up getting involved with this girl... I was bored, and I kinda thought she might be fun to know.But what I hadn't counted on was just how messed up this girl is...she has a really scary background, including hospitalisation for suicide attempts, drink and drug problems, self injury, and time in jail and mental institutions. I thought she was great at first and I was so besotted with her, then a few months ago I started to notice serious problems..it became obvious that she didn't trust me. It stems from something really dumb and trivial..basically just before I got with her I posted a review on an escort review site about one escort I'd been with just before I got with her. I wrote about how hot the girl was and what a great lay she was, and detailed all the sexual activities I'd enjoyed with this escort and how I'd like to go back and see her again. I only wrote one review in all my time seeing escorts,and it was because that girl asked me to, but anyway my escort gf found it and read it and afterwards she just didn't trust me. She says that men who use escorts don't ever stop, and that if I was into that scene before then she doesn't believe I would stop just because I got with her. I haven't been seeing escorts since I got with her (I don't have the money anymore) but she just won't believe me. She is just so messed up, and has started drinking really heavy since she went back to the industry. She got a regular job last year but was laid off, so she had to return to escorting due to money troubles and it just seems to have really messed her up. I honestly don't know what to do about this relationship. I decided I wanted to settle down, and I thought she would be a great choice, but not now.She went nuts at me the other weekend after she got drunk and high and it was the scariest thing I ever saw..she totally freaked out. She was calling me names like "whore hag", and accusing me of being a pervert that is addicted to hookers.I think she is totally overreacting, just because she saw one review I posted about an escort online she refuses to trust me, or any other men that use escorts...she just says they are all dogs. She even told me she thinks she is lesbian now.What the hell do I do about this? Do you think she is in the wrong? And should I dump her, or try and work things out? I just can't handle the angry rages when she gets drunk.
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reader, Ven  +, writes (18 October 2010):
If you love her, get her in rehab.
Regardless of your personal issues, she is not currently of sufficient mental capacity to make decisions regarding dating.
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