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writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. There is a 10 year age gap. We are very happy. He says he loves me, but he hasn't told his mom about me. He is 30 I am 39 an i have 2 kids from a previous relationship. Am i wasting my time? Reply to this Question
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reader, matty67 +, writes (9 August 2009):
matty67 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfanx 4 ur advise am going up to see him and have decided am gonna have a heart 2 heart wif him an if he feel fings are not going 2 go further and he not got it in him 2 tell his mam . i fink its gona be over no point makes me feel he hiding me a big secret from his mam
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reader, matty67 +, writes (8 August 2009):
matty67 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx 4 ur advise i fink he scared that she will judge me xav got a good heart would never in a million years hurt him ,that i know for sure but at end of day it has 2 work both ways i know deep down he loves me an he gets on so gr8t wif my we girl. he tells me he wants us 2 have a future. may b i shud just chill out .at end of the day its up 2 him if he tells his mam . he can b a little shelfish 2 he goes out wif his m8ts nyts out an i dont get askd . i did point this out 2 him . but thats prob the age gap . i do trust him .but av been hurt be fore badly 2 times i will never totaly trust a guy i try . but will aways av niggels in the bak of my mind x:)
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reader, matty67 +, writes (8 August 2009):
matty67 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbelive me i sooo want it 2 work out between us he makes me happy an he has a good heart he every fing i look 4 in a guy. may b i shud just leave it up 2 him if he tells his mam. if not am gonna push him away. an i dont want 2 do that. he said he gona tell her soon :) fanx 4 ur advise
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (8 August 2009):
It's hard to say if you are wasting your time or not because he may have his reason for why he hasn't told his mom. Maybe he knows that she will not approve and may cause friction in the relationship and he isn't ready to deal with the drama. I would advise you confront him once and for all and say hey what's going on with us. This is the only way you will know what his intentions really are. Now if he gives you a bunch of excuses then you need to get rid of him asap. I hope his mother will welcome you with open arms and not judge you for your past. Something is telling me he has his reasons keep in mind not all family members are sane rational people.
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