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writes:All advice would be great! I like this woman and I am a woman. I have never been in a sexual relationship with the same sex.. I have 4 years ago had a friend that I kissed, we parted paths I was too scared and not ready for more.NOW TO MY PROBLEM AT HAND.I like a woman coworker, I have feelings for her.I have the feeling she does too for me or is as confused as I. She is married in a unhappy marriage.We have a connection thing going on - I have never felt somthen this powerful before- I actually almost kiss her in front of my coworkers- (she was staring into my eyes and was so close - even did the eye 2 lip job). She looks into my eyes- and will not stop untill we have like a mutal connection* I feel so much energy,love it's like being hit with a flood.Then she went too avoidance- avoided me - then could not help but peek at me or come by and talk to everyone else around me then walk away thing... So I gave her space- 3weeks later I felt so empty.. I really missed her, by this time she was starting to slowly come back around - she would just look at me then do her biz. Durning break I saw she needed mustard so I passed it too her we were alone outside. She started by saying" you give so much I dont give a thing" I said I never asked for anything, she said either did I... I know she was not talking about me passing the mustard, but it felt like she was talking about the feelings she and I were having - which both placed us back @ square 1. After she said "either did I", she went on and said NO I do give somthen I give my LOVE- and a min after her own shock from saying love she said and friendship in almost a wisper. After that it was time for me to leave - and she said ---- please keep in touch with me not here @ work but at home I give so- much and I am differant than I am here.. I waited a week debating and thinking about what happened. I asked her out- she waited a day then said ya - then took it back - then said ya- then took it back- till on friday I said whats the answer today- (i was hurt, and decided this is the last time) she said probably not she busy and blah blah blah... Sunday came - I got a txt from her asking me to lunch- when I got there she brought her kid, I did not mind I have one of my own - but it was like she was hiding behind him type thing... She told me she had a great time- and I did too...NOW she is back too the way it was with those Darn BROWN EYES! I can't tell if she wanting me as a friend or more or what's going on.She got jelous when a rumor went around about me and a coworker (untrue). Then acted like she was shocked I talked to the coworkers around me- like how could you type thng. Our coworkers can see the energy, I have had no one come out and say it but hint it, and our boss has been keeping a closer eye and watching it noticable!!Just yestarday she walked back to my area like (girl I like) walking on a tight rope - looking straight at me - I have never seen her try to walk sexy before... She was trying. From the side I noticed our bosses was watching - so I did a quick hi and sat down.Do I walk away- or be her friend?Is she attracted to me too?How do I approach this without scaring her?Or open thoughts tell me what you think- help.I avoided her wanting me to do the eye contact thing last eve... She was really trying to get my attintion.. Its like she seeks me out, and no I have not seen her be this way with others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): difficult one mate, I was in simialar situation and went for it. Broke up too marriages and hurt childen in the process. I do believe the chemistry you feel is real but, my advice is remain friends for now. Support her if she wants out of her marriage and then and only then let your feelings be known. You do not want to be blamed for her marriage break up so tread carefully.
I wish you both the best of luck. When you finally get together life will be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): wow. Girlie. wish i was there . It seems so intense between you guy's.Please keep us posted,there is obviuosly an attraction flowing along here. \bed time cometh!!!!!!!!!
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (4 March 2009):
 you should just go for it, ask her straight out if she has feelings for you in a way other than friendship. it sounds like she does but is afraid to show it too much or afraid to admit it. just go for it!
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