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writes: My girlfriend and I started off just as friends. Now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We kiss sometimes. We are entering our teen age years. We are learning about human sexuality. It seems important to us and our relationship. I think an important step in learning about sexuality and in our relationship is seeing each other naked. Becoming comfortable with seeing each other naked I think is also important to learning about sexuality and building our relationship. I have not seen a girl naked but would like to. I don’t think she has seen a boy naked. I would like to see her naked in particular. As we are boyfriend and girlfriend I think it is the next step in our relationship. How can we start off? How can I let her know that I would like to see her naked? How can I warm her up to the idea?If we get naked what are some things we can do together? How can I get her comfortable with me seeing her naked? How can I get her comfortable with being naked in front of andwith me?I am thinking that at some point I would like to have sex with her. I want her to be my first. Is being comfortable with being naked together the first step to have sex? At what point in our relationship can we/should we consider sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): First of all if you were to young to have sex you would not be able to physically have sex, so there goes that theory. You may not be ready for a sexual relationship from an emotional standpoint, but I had my first sexual experience at a very young age and it turned out just fine. Make sure you talk things through with your partner, so you're both comfortable with the idea. Don't rush into anything before both of you are absolutely ready. Whether both of you are virgins or not, make sure that you use a condom; that's always the smart move. It would probably be best if you talked to your parents about it, but they would probably give you the whole "you're too young" line as well. Speaking from my background in evolutionary matters, if you were to young to have sex you would be physically unable to do so; sex is a wonderful experience that allows the passing on of one's genes through the generations and allows us to continue as a species. Just make sure you are safe, and that both of your are aware of all the consequences that could occur by deciding to have sex at a young age.
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reader, Tewebag  +, writes (4 March 2009):
your to young. just because you are learning about it in school doesnt mean you need to do anything about it. here is something you can do. take the same computer you used to writwe this question. go to Google and enter the following "naked girls". there you go a bunch of girls for you to google at all you want. websites not pictures (those suck)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Your too young.
Wait unti your older, you dont have to have sex.
You can kiss, and jus have a little fun.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 You are entering your teen years!? You do not see her naked and you certainly do not consider sex yet!
I think you need to talk to your Dad about where do babies come from before even thinking about having sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): You seriously didn't ask this. Firstly, you are too young, wait until you're older and find someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. you are way to young and a proportion of kids our age (yes i'm a mature teen) end up feeling stupid and possibly emotionally scarred because of not being ready for the rest of their lives.Don't pressure her either, it is your decision, but don't do it. You probably aren't ready for it.good luck and take my advice!
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