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female
age
36-40,
*aucy sam
writes:hi not really a problem here i just want to know whays that i can spice up my sex life. i am curvy girl and i lack in confidence A LOT is there any advice on how to help e.g. what i would look good in and what a man wants in the bedroom. any advice i would be really grateful thanks xxx
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (7 January 2008):
 Hey I'm curvy hun dw.
I like wearing french knickewrs (dark ones so mainly black with a rnadom colour lace) and a very of some sort that is just above it, I like the fact my boyfriends doesn't care about the size of my body at all hun and neither should yours and hey when i get all low self esteem adn ti comes to the bedroom I have a Saying
"More cushion for the pushin"
have fun!
x
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): let your man know he pleases you. How you moan with his touch is more important to him that what he has to remove to touch you. If a man respects you, it will be so easy to respect yourself. Find a man that considers your body style a "non-issue", that is happy that you are healthy and energetic, but not concerned that you fit into what society deems sexy, and doesn't feed on women with low self-esteem. Great sex is in the mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): Guys all like different things, Why not ask him what he would like to see you in.
I find that classy sexy lingerie always does the trick, Im a curvy girl myself and I think theres nothing better than a nice corset to accentuate the curves.
My hubby loves it!.
Why not try that and see how well that goes down!.
x
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reader, AJ jess ^..^ +, writes (6 January 2008):
 im a curvy girl too i suggest french knickers as are best for shape nice sexy pair :P and you can get these nice bra's with like a corset but its soft material and floaty they look really good xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): im curvy and i find that nice flattering underwear can help loooads as long as its comfy
for example french nickers are flattering because they hold your stomach in and make ur arse look perkier!
and a corset top sucks everythin in at the top except cleavage!
but remember if you're going to end up sleeping with this guy then u shud be happy for him to see u naked!!
i have fairy lights above my bed that are nice because a low light is very flattering
i like nice underwear but im also comfy for the guy im with to see me naked, if you're happy to have sex be happy with your body!
xx
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 Young lady, The best advice I can give you is "Just Be Yourself" Your lover should want you for You.
However, if you do feel you need some "attire" to spice it up, I'd would suggest a bustier,heels, stockings, and of course the one thing that can provide hours of fun...THE FEATHER! I'm telling ya...THE FEATHER. The feather is a great ice breaker! THE FEATHER is FUN!
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