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writes: me and my boyfriend are very much in love we always have been but my friend is insanely jealous because she fancies my boyfriend although i did ask if she was ok with me going out with him and she said yes on top of this she has her own boyfriend and keeps trying to interfere with my relationship. she won't consider my happiness at all i feel like she has betrayed me, i feel like crying i cant tell my boyfriend because they are ex lovers its hard he is over her completely and loves me he always has done and reassures me constantly it is me he wants not her but she cannot seem to except this. what should i do? i feel upset and hurt about this because she was so close to me i regarded her as my sister but now i do not know what to feel about her anymore. i know she is hurting too and that hurts me even more i want to talk to her but do not feel like i can because she won't talk to me about whats bothering her anymore we are not as close as we were and i do not know how to adjust what do you think i should do? talk to her? leave her? give her time? HELP
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 It is an impasse. You cannot talk to her. She would want you to give up your b/f and this you cannot or won't do.It is a stalemate.
Forget about talking to her .She hates you to the guts by now. You cannot have a threesome ,you , your b/f and his ex.You and your b/f will have to split from his ex or your best friend.
If you want the peace or mind, don't go to the same world as your best friend.Your friendship with her is over.You have to set a different course from her.
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reader, alymarshall  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 this is a realy hard situation for you and her. you speak about her like you realy care your man will understand if you tell him whats going on your friend should not of told you it was ok but i can see how she must be feeling. people can think that they are no longer in love with someone when they realy are or the other way around where they think they are in love but realy not you need to sit and talk to your friend and tell her how it makes you feel but listen at how she feels maybe carm down kissing him in front of her or showing to much affection towards him when your friend is around
explain to your partner that you will not kiss him as much infront of her and the reson why before hand
hope this helps you x
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