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writes: Dear agony aunts,I have a boyfriend who isn't afraid or shy and an ex-boyfriend who I also have feelings for. But I don't know what to do about current boyfriend or ex I so confused! what can i do? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2006): Like Phoebe said, there is a reason your ex is your ex. I have never had good luck dating an ex-boyfriend. I definately don't recommend dating the ex, but if you feel that he is better to you than your current boyfriend, than go for it. However, if your current boyfriend is better to you than your ex was, than stay put. You deserve to be treated well. Always know that. Just try to figure out who is better for you, and also who you like more. Writing down your feelings for the two can also help shed some light on the situation. Weighing pros and cons always seems to leave me more confused than when I started, lol. I wish you the best of luck in your situation, and I hope everything works out okay for you in the end! Stay strong!
~RJGirl
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (15 July 2006):
 Hey,
well try and seperate them in your mind. Why is your ex your ex? Doesn't that tell you something? Why is your boyfriend your boyfriend? Possibly write down the pro's and cons about them and try and think how happy you are with each of them and how they treat you - how good to you (or faithful!) are they?
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
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