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Curious about my sexuality

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Question - (7 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, so I'm attracted to boys - I've always fancied boys and I've had boyfriends. I've never thought about having a girlfriend but when I'm horny I think about girls, I can get horny with boys too though. It's just when i masterbate I think about performing oral sex on girls and them performing it on me. Is this normal?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010):

There is nothing abnormal about women or men turning you on. Each to their own. I see myself as straight, and am in a relationship with a boy but have always thought of women when masterbating. When I was in my teens I wondered if this was normal too and worried if it meant i was bi or gay, but at the end of the day, this shouldn't be a worry. Whatever makes you happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the advice :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010):

I think you are COMPLETELY normal! And I think the way you feel is quite common. It doesn't mean that you are gay, although if you decided that you are that is perfectly fine. I have heard a lot of females say that they are only interested in guys, but thinking about girls turns them on. Different things appeal to different people. So don't worry, you're fine! x

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A female reader, nikacherie United States +, writes (8 March 2010):

I think that in this society we are so over saturated with images of sexy women that we are turning ourselves on. I am 44 and have struggled with this but only in masturbation. I truly love 'the male' and have never gone outside of that. Fact is that women are more desirable and sexier than men and we know that. I don't think it is abnormal unless you take it to the next level. Men aren't that physically attractive, it's how they treat us that turns us on. Anyway, that's just my take on it.

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