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writes: Torn between two guys but don't know if I stand a chance with either...I recently met this guy at university and we get on well, he's a great looking guy and I have a crush on him. I decided I wanted to ask him out, but now I realise that I also fancy his friend who I am actually closer to and have known longer. Both are great guys and there's not much to choose between them. I also don't even know if either of them is actually interested in me as anything other than a friend and don't want to ruin our friendship by risking it. How do I decide a) which guy to go for and b) if the actually like me? help!
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 February 2006):
 I think you are being too indicisive about the whole thing...
You are unsure about everything concerning these two guys, the only thing you do know for sure, is that you are all friends...
Why not keep it that way, rather than run the risk of messing up the friendship?
I say play it safe & rather know that you at least have them both as friends.
This way the friendship you share will probably outlive a relationship, anyway.
Good Luck & Take Care.
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