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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): yup he likes you
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reader, Hilalalala  +, writes (26 April 2008):
He obviously likes you if he tried to kiss you at boxing day. he may feel hurt and possibly rejected because you pulled away. But dont fret ! Maybe you should try and invite him and a group of his and your friends along to the cinema. If he accepts the invatation it means he might still like you. Try to sit next to him and start flirting but not so much as to ruin the movie. Have a good time and maybe you could sneek in a quik kiss if not wait till he says goodbye then try. If he rejects you then you will know . if he doesnt acceppt the invite act cool about it just say ok maybe another time that way you are leaving it open. If he likes you he will try to re open the invite :) Goood Luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): He obviously likes you if he tried to kiss you at boxing day. he may feel hurt and possibly rejected because you pulled away. But dont fret ! Maybe you should try and invite him and a group of his and your friends along to the cinema. If he accepts the invatation it means he might still like you. Try to sit next to him and start flirting but not so much as to ruin the movie. Have a good time and maybe you could sneek in a quik kiss if not wait till he says goodbye then try. If he rejects you then you will know . if he doesnt acceppt the invite act cool about it just say ok maybe another time that way you are leaving it open. If he likes you he will try to re open the invite :) Goood Luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): to shouldnt have looked away
if you really like the dude
just go up and talk to him about that
because if your never going to try your never going to know
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Dude I feel your pain. I don't know how old you are but I'm ten. My name is Kylie and my crush's names are Kyle, James, Harlan ,Caleb,and Tyler. I've known Tyler since we were babies and we are really good friends. I'm also more of a boy than you but not a lesbian. I would just make a move and kiss him. But it depends how cute he is. My friend Amanda likes Kyle so I totally feel your pain. So just make a move! But don't make a fool of yourself. ;-) Love, Kylie
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Hi Katie,
Im .... forget about who I am here is my advice. Flirt with him watch his every move. Make it look like your interested in him. Then when he comes to talk to you try to get something to slip out of his mouth if he likes you or not. And if you are gutsy just ask him STRAIGHT if he says yes go out. if he says no dont talk to him. if he says no and you dont talk to him he'll get suspicious and come around.
Good Luck,
...... Forget about my name.. GO USE MY ADVICE!
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reader, liltinky24 +, writes (25 February 2008):
hey katie,
He sounds like he dosen't really know whether to make a move or not. But by the looks of it he does like you, its up to you to show him that you like him. Maybe he hasnt said anything because he thinks your not interested in that way.
Since he tried to kiss you 4 times he does like you, but because you moved away he probably feels slightly confused.
Why dont you try to show him you like him, dont be too obvious but to subtle things like hold his hand, or taking more interest in him.
Try not to be too keen on kissing and stuff yet, because you dont really know yet whether this is true.
Remember that you dont want to ruin your friendship in the process.
But if all else fails, he's your friend so im sure you can talk to him openly and tell him how you feel.
Good Luck Katie
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): my problem-I like my guy friend who I've known for years but never got to know him like his personality until earlier this year. Now I consider us close since we talk for hours and hours every single day. We haven't hung out with eachother outside of school yet but we keep joking around about how we should do something but no one officially asks to do anything. I don't know how to go about getting him to ask me since im really shy I'de say. The thing is I was told he likes me but he hasn't said anything to me even though we flirt alot. Is this going anywhere relationship wise & what should I do about it?How do I get him to tell me how he feels?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): Well i had the same problem but the only thing is that i have a man but it seems o me that my best friend gives more attention then my boyfriend does so if i was u i would go along with but ONLY if you like him and he likes you. This same thing happend to me but at my boyfriends house how he tried kissing me in the same house as my boyfriend but i turned my head and now he stills try flirting with me. And this is hard cus i kinda like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): ok so i like this guy. we went about last march but after a week or so he told me it wasnt working out. i have never really gotten over him. i was just wondering if he liked me still. well he is always snake bitting me whicjh is like poking a persons side really hard, he says i remind him of a cat, whenever we have music nad im outting the keyboard away he always shuts the door on me so i have to push in order for him to stop, and this one time when the band went out for dinner he kinda spread out his legs under the table so the whenever i moved my feet i would kick/hit him. he always smiles a me. and the pther day he remeber that i had a math test 2 days before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Go for it whats the worst that could happen he could say no but he wont hate you for it he will proberly respect you more for it and will think of you as a girlfriend not a mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): I have a best guy friend who I'm pretty sure likes me. He always try to get close to me (hugging a lot), hang out with me, follows me around and stuff. So once we were walking home from afterschool just the two of us, and suddenly he wanted a hug, so I decided to give him a hug (although I was skeptical) and he tried giving me a kiss on the lips! I turned away soon after ( I was so confused/terrified). He didn't say much but I asked "Did we kiss?" He replied "Maybe." Then, I said "There's this lady who saw what we seemed to be doing" (he and I noticed the lady) He said "It doesn't matter what she thinks or anyone else...It's ok..." What could that mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): i think he does like you still love never dies i know how you feel a similar thing happened to me a while back i liked this guy and we use to be together all the time but he use to be a practicle joker and i never took him seriously but then when he asked me question i said no because i thought he was messing and now i think i have blown it with him and im suppose to be meeting him tonight but since i said no he has been crushing on my friend and last night she asked him if he still liked me and he said no so that relation ship is out of the question for me but if you keep trying you will grt him or some1 else like i said though love never dies i will always love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Well its obvious that you both really like each other. You like him and he has tried to kiss you. I have been in the same situation the only problem was I rejected him and then he went out with one of my mates and i kicked myself for it and I wouldn`t love anyone else because I loved him sooo much but it was too late. Don`t do the same mistake as me it hurts you. Just at least give him one chance if it doesn't work out then you know that you are better off friends. If you don`t want to tell him to his face, either get a close friend to do it or write a note to him in school or something or a phone call to make it less embarrassing. Come on what's the worst he is going to say. Its might be a no but if this lad is any good you will still remain friends whatever the outcome. Try it otherwise you will regret it don` t be afraid to talk to me about anything i`m here to help
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): hiya katie if hes tried to kiss u b4 now then i suppose he fancies you to just sit down and talk to him tell him how you feel about him and ask him how he feels about you and just take it from there xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): umm i have never been in ur situation befor but my advice would be to tell him how you feel n hope for the best. i no its hard to revil your feeling like that to someone but it mayb be worth it in the end. like everyone says honesty is the best key lol and if you dont all the what ifs? n kicking your self will occur, it is big risk but you just have to ask your self :is it one your willing to take
christy
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): he defifntly likes you give him some time. Boys can be just as embarassed as girls. if he doesnt make a move, ask him out. Don't come on too strong, it might scare him, take it slow the movies or something.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): if he is single go for it coz otherwise he aint gonna know how u feel about him and u may end up being hurt when he starts dating someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Hey i'm caroline I have the same problem. I think you should tell him how you feel a/b him.Then if he doesn't like you he might start liking you.Then ya'll can go out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): Hey Katie maybe u should tell him that u like him oviously he likes u give it a try trust me it works!!!!!!1
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): so i told my crush's friends i liked him and they told him. in homecoming i didnt know so i decided to tell him. he already knew and ran away. 30 min later he came up to me and asked me to dance. the next day though...i asked if he liked me and he said as a friend. later i learned that when he ran away (in homecoming) my friend called him a jerk, then he asked me to dance. whats up with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): i realllllllllllllllllllllllly like this one boy soo much have done 4 ages he talks to me and that but has a gf and he dnt seem interested but in a way he dus helppp
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): hiya well i really like this boy where i live and i dont know if he likes me but he is like a mosher sort of boy and i am like full on chav what can i dont to make him notice me and atchally like like me so please help me i need to have some very very good advice and he is like 2 years older than me
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): i think since you've been friends for so long that you should talk to him. If you really are friends then he will understand and still like you as a friend even if he doesn't feel the same way. Life is about taking chances so live life to the fullest! 333
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): when we boys try to kiss someone it doesn't mean we fancy that person its just because we are boys and we have sex on the brain 24/7. sorry but i think you should just stay mates.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): tell him your problem but dont say its about you. See what he says. If he ses you shouldn't go for it then tell him how you feel. If he says go for it then give it a go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): omg...yes! he tryed kissing u 4 times......i dont kno about u but i think he LIKES U!!! ask him out!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006): I think he does , i have a simurlar prob but he not tried kiss me yet.My mum say's if a lad like's you they never really stop liking you so take your chance.
gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006): try telling the boy how you feel? im sure if he used to like u and tried to kiss you he still has feelings for you. why not try flirting with him see what he does, if he flirts back you no he likes you and you can go from there if he dosn't then be more and more friendly around him each time you see him he will soon get the message. be carfull though you dont whant him to brake your heart if he doen't return any of your signals try and ask if hes really worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2006): i am sure he lyks u if he always lets u hug him gurl i don't know wuts ur problem He LYKS U!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): i think he definitly likes you if he tried to kiss you and he is probably confused at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): hey i just needed some advice my self so im gona help u... this guy prob still likes, mabye u shold ask him out and u should loosen up more and try 2 kiss him i've never kissed a guy my slef i've got somwat the same prob, realy hope this heps
by (pin name) Rouge
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reader, cheyenne429 +, writes (20 January 2006):
You know I think this guy has a thing for you! I mean come on, if he tried to kiss you 4 times on boxing day I certainly likes you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006): just go 4 it then at least u would of known u would of tryed or sit down and talk 2 him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2005): well if he had tried to kiss you 4 times on boxing day he'd probably like you. now ask yourself when you turned him down did you really like him? when you see him again ask him if not send him a letter. he's sure to send one back. if he says yes accept him and ask to go out if no try to think of him as a friend ad try to get in touch with another boy. ,kristina
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2005): YEa of coure he likes u honestly he tried to kiss u and any way if he says no just say it was a joke but he fancies u soo much i had that problem last year my best boy m8 fancied me and asked me out everyone screamd down the phone yes and i couldnt get his hopes up like that then crush them so i said yes but then a week after i told him he understood everything he new if he asked me out i was goin to break up with him eventully but were still best m8 kk so go for it u may find out u dont fancie him u would just like the idea of him as your boyfriend
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A reader, Dan, writes (30 January 2005): He probably has no idea whats going on. If he has half has much trouble communicating with you as I had trying to decode and comprehend your letter, then there lies your problem
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (30 January 2005):
 Hi Katie,You're giving this boy really mixed messages, and he's probably terribly confused. First, he liked you and you weren't interested, now you like him but when he tried to kiss you, you turned away. But you still hug him whenever you see him. Chances are that he does like you, but you keep changing your mind. What's a boy to think? Are you interested or are you not?You need to work out what you really want, in your heart, before you do anything else. Second, you'll need to recognise that just because you know what you want doesn't mean that this boy will want the same thing at the same time. Lastly, you need to remember that you're still young and you have years and years (and years) ahead of you to get it right. So if your wants and desires don't match up with his straightaway, you don't have to despair.Here are my thoughts for you: There isn't any need for you to rush into a romantic relationship at this time in your life. Now is a great time to get to know boys as friends and have fun with them as such, instead of focussing too much on kissing and all the rest. Romance does complicate things, and people get hurt and jealous all the time. Make sure you consider too, that if you fancy him as a boyfriend, and he goes for someone else, you're going to feel bad about it for a good while. Is the chance worth it? You have to decide that.If you're sure that you want to develop your friendship with this boy into something more, you're going to have to pick your feelings and stick with them long enough for him to be sure of how you feel. Then he may try to kiss you again.You could also take the initiative yourself, by holding his hand, or, if he's willing to be hugged, by giving him a kiss on the cheek next time you hu him. Don't go overboard, because he's already unsure and you don't want to scare him or to feel like he's being stalked.Just be yourself, be friendly, be willing to be kissed and most of all... be patient.Then have fun. Good luck, Katie.
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