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writes:hello dear readers, Many already posted about their crushes or about their feelings for their teachers. and I am one of them. My question is if you have a crush on a teacher but you don't want to have to, what should you do??please help me....
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reader, xCharliix  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 I am in the same situation!.. I am crazy about my teacher..You know in your head that i can't happen, yet people tell you, you don't want to accept it...There isn't really any great advice that people can give you, it really depends on the feelings towards your teacher i suppose.How old is he/she? Is he/she a close teacher? how long have you had the crush?.. what is it about them that you find attractive?..lol.. It's the hardest situation to be in.. I feel for you- as i'm in it too and it sucks.. it's okay for a week or two, but then it gets more deeper and then you realize that it can never happen etc. and then it just starts to really bring you down..Good Luck, and if you need any more help, or want to know what my situation is, then just send me a message..x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Stay busy, keep your mind occupied. Crushes always fade in time, you'll just have to ride it out. It will fade even faster if you can stay away from him as much as possible. You'll be fine, everybody goes through this at one time or another.
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reader, NITRAM BLUE +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Wow, kala ko sa ibang bansa lang nagkaka-crush ang mga estudyante sa kanilang maestro. Hihihi. Hindi ako yun, malamang aurelius ang pangalan nun. =) Joke.I am a professor in one least known school here in the Philippines. I know what you are going through. I know how some of my students have these peculiar glance that sometimes send shivers to my spine.Well some details of your case are missing. Is he married? Does he have a girlfriend? Those things are important like water on a coffee. If any of the two (2) are present, my advice is you have to forget it girl because you don't want to end up as "the other woman."Next since you are 18-21 y.o., I pressume you are a 3rd year or a 4th year college student. Which my advice is you really have to finish school before anything else. Mahirap ang buhay ngayon, stick with your education than the needs of the heart.Going back to your main question: My question is if you have a crush on a teacher but you don't want to have to, what should you do??Expand your circle of friends or find a hobby (mapaglilibangan). It works all the time. Having a large circle of friends will get your hands full and mind off everything. A hobby like playing online games or watching nice DVDs will kill a significant lenght of time and your focus is diverted over some silly crush.“Purely sensual love is never true or lasting, for which reason first love is, as a rule, but a passing infatuation, a fleeting passion”
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