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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ive been on and off with this pig. hes attitude is foul. he keeps standing me up and he does things i realy dont approve. hes made me suffer for so long. he pretended i was acually going to his last saturday night (saturday before the last one) and my dad offerd me a lift to take me there and before we get into the car, i get a text "i am stoned". I lost the plot. i wrote to him back asking what the fuck goes through his mind. i got so angry i ran out the car deleted his facebook and his number. I get another text "dont text me anymore coz im with a few girls" so im livid. I planned to ignore him because i was getting myself upset over it and hes has a few chances too many. an hour or so later, I got 18 missed calls from him. i rejected them all. that following monday, he tries to re add me on facebook and personal messages me : you alright gawjus. I was fuming. the next day I knew he wasnt getting the message so I needed to put my foot down and take charge for once. by facebook personal message, i told him to delete me everyway to. I told him to go away and leave me alone and told him to grow up. I got the "thats not very nice is it" or "thats nice" so I gave up. on the wednsday dead on 7pm, he texted me "u ite" (you alright). I thought nope im not going to his level ignored it and deleted it. I havent heard from him until today with a weird text from him "look we could start fresh, let me know" I was fuming. So later I texted him "no thank you. seriously. now like i asked you delete my number and get out of my life" I get a text bac from him "ok you slag" I text bacl "whatever" and he text back "yeah whatever" so i deleted the conversation. but what can I do and what the hell is going on. I need help and advice! :"( very frustrated!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 January 2013):
 what you do is BLOCK HIM (phone email and social media)
He's playing head games with you but it takes two to play.
stop playing back.
IGNORE him and he will go away
HIS goal to get you back is NOT about how great you are but about his ego.
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reader, Dayzy  +, writes (16 January 2013):
This guy's behaviour is stalking. He wants to KEEP you not to LOVE you. If possible talk to your parents and tell him this guy won't leave you alone. You might need the help and support of family and or friends. You say off again/on again relationship...these don't work out. Dr Phil says the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Make sure that you are physiaclly safe from this guy. Don't confuse the fact that he wants to keep you with him loving you. If he loved you he would be kind and good to you. There are people who KEEP others locked in basements and you wouldn't call that love would you?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 You have already broken up with him so make sure this relationship is off forever. You were on when he couldn't hook up with any girl and you were off when you couldn't stand him. What is going on here is that you got a guy who's so stoned that his actions and his words are ridiculous.
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