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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've never had a girlfriend before.Heres whats been happening so far:-There's this girl that I like, really like as in love, we're friends, we're both the same age, I'm really shy and so is she.First off, we talk loads, and I mean loads (we talk about games tv, and music, stuff like that), when we talk we smile at each other and throughout the conversation we look into each others eyes, we don't look away, when I finish talking she'll ask me a question or tell me something interesting, when we first started talking she was always looking down, talking really quick and stuttering on some words, now it's not so much.We both like almost all the same stuff, music games etc. (This isn't even half of what we share in common).I've made her laugh once or twice, and she's only laughed at me when I've made a complete and utter fool of myself. When I stumbled, she was the only one to laugh, she was giggling to herself. :P Even when I made a barely funny joke, she was the only one to giggle.In addition, if I need anything, like a pen or a pencil or some help, she'll always help with anything I need.Finally when I asked for her number, she was pretty quick to give it to me, and said it so fast I had to half guess some numbers.When I send her messages she usually replies, however sometimes she doesn't (only when I ask how she is/how her holiday is going so far)When I was talking to the girl we had, what I thought was, an awkward silence because I couldn't think of anything else to say to her. It lasted about 25-30 seconds, when she finally said something the conversation carried on.The other day, after school mine and her friend shouts "Her name have a nice walk home with my name"She replys with "Why wouldn't I?!"Her tone was defensive, as if she was sticking up for me, lol, but it was happy sounding, higher than her usual voice, she's done this a few times now.The friend, is both ours, I told him that I liked her :P And the other day, I think, my freind whispered to me she likes me, but he denies it, so I don't know if he was just saying that or what. And now he's telling me I shouldn't ask her out, and that he doesn't think she likes me more than a friend. What gives?And we are in the same classes at college, so I see her every day, although I don't often get to walk alone with her, as our friends walk home the same way to.She's also told me personal stuff about her, like what music and stuff she listens to, books she reads, what uni she want's to go to, that her parents are thinking of moving away when she finishes college things like that.In addition, when we were talking her eyes were biger than normal.She was touching my leg with her foot aswell, I think she knew she was, because she didn't stop, I might be overexagirating this, because I don't know.We're both in town tomorrow, and I asked her if she wanted to go then, she said she couldn't because she's in town with her mum, shopping, and she would probably go home after (When she said it, she was stuttering on some words and talking really quickly and quietly), she shyed away from the topic and we started talking about other things that interest us both. I'm not sure but could this just be becasue she's shy? Do I still have a chance?I'm really having doubts now on whether or not what I thought were signs were just me imagining them, I really like this girl, but whenever I think of what I'm going to do I get really sad and begin to feel sick.Many thanks.
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reader, Alexandre  +, writes (5 May 2012):
 hello well what from what ive red and the signs that she has been showing definatly shows that she has feelings for you.now im just confirming that she likes you. if you want to tell her the best way is to bring it up on one of your long and sometimes akward conversational walks then she has to answer because you are alone together and there is none else to make it weird or to spread the word.i hope this helps you. AlexC :)
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