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writes:Okay so this past weekend for the 4th of July I went up north with a friend to their cabin and up there I met this girl.. Her family and my friends family are both friends so we hung out like everyday. But this girl was just amazing, we hit it off right from the start. We have piratically everything in common and not only is she really smart but beautiful too. Shes my dream girl. But theres just one little problem, I live in Michigan and she lives in California.. but the whole time we were up there we were both talky talky flirty flirty with each other and I could tell she liked me (but still im not like 100% she actually does). One time when we all took the pontoon boat out for a cruise I did a little like experiment, me and her were the first two people on the boat and I went and sat in the smallest seat that only had enough room for two people. The whole boat was open, and she came and sat next to me. And on the ride it was kinda cold, we were sharing a blanket, I had my arm around her and she was leaning against me. Also my friends cabin has a sauna, an at night we would go in it then run out to the lake and jump in then go back in. At one point it was just me and her going out an when we were in the water she made some comment about how amazing all the stares were, and when I looked up we saw a shooting star. And this shooting star wasn’t like any Ive ever seen before. This was the brightest and longest one Ive ever seen. Now Im the kind of person that thinks everything happens for a reason and that like things are symbols and signs. And in that moment that star was just like a sign that we were meant to be together. It was amazing.The thing is I don’t know what to do about all this. Im worried what would happen if I told her how I feel about her. Also I keep doubting myself that if what I was feeling was even real or if it was just the rush of like being up north on vacation meeting someone new kinda thing. Like what if I see her again and its just not the same. And in a way though this could kinda work out. Because I am going to college near where we were up north and she is going to be a senior next year and they always go on vacation up to their cottage every break. So there is the chance of me being able to see her again. But Im just not sure where to go from here..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): Hi.
You say you have 'practically everything in common'? Cool, alot of people do. Most friends do? Its not really a sign, although, it could be.
You say she is really beautiful and smart? Thats nice to know! Looks do matter in a relationship, as i feel looks matter, so i cant critisise on that point! And being smart is goodtoo.. Beauty and brains!
You could tell she liked you? Really? She could just be being friendly.. But i wasnt there, so it might be true, she might of liked you!
You shared a romantic moment! N'arw! Now thats a point that shows that something could happen between you two someday!
Shooting stars happen ALL the time, you might of just never have been lucky enough before to see one? But its pretty romantic, if i do say!
Yes, you should be worried! You never really meet! Ask to meet up more before you tell her. Go on about 6-10 dates before you do.
Hope i helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): I think you should ask her out and give her a chance. She seems really into you. The only problem is the distance and she may not be into that. But tell her how you feel and hopefully she'll feel the same.
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