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anonymous
writes:Could this be Love? iv'e been seeing this guy for about 3yrs, he has always told me he likes me lots and lots and lots. we only see each other. we get on fine everything is great and we don't argue to much, he calls me everyday and texts me morning and nite and sometimes during the day also. lately he has been saying things that he has never mentioned before to me like yesterday when he couldn't reach me on the phone he left a message saying please call me when you can i would go crazy if i couldn't talk to you everyday, if i'm sick he is very attentive checks on me through the day to see how i'm doing. tells me he misses me and is always sending me heaps of kisses and hugs in texts, and he has become heaps more affectionate when we have sex, i am more than fond of him could he be falling in love or am i just imagining things here???? we are both in our 40's
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Well what changes if he loves you vs only really really really LIKES you and wants to be with you?
will how he treats you change?
you've been together 3 years.. what's changed now that makes you wonder... what do you need/want to be different?
I've been with my BF about a year now and while he's RARELY told me he loves me (I think maybe 3 times over the last year) I know in my heart and soul (and brain) that he loves me more than he has ever loved anyone else in his entire life. I do not have to question it.
My last husband told me over and over he loved me but his constant texting and flirting with other women and lying about it told me otherwise. He believed he loved me... but clearly he was not able to love me properly the way I needed.
IF your man treats you well
IF you are happy
IF he is happy
what else is there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Does he tell you he loves you? Has he introduced you to his friends and his family? Does he introduce you as his girlfriend to people? Do you spend holidays together? Does he plan his future with you in it? These are the signs someone loves you and is not stringing you along.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Well from what ive heard it does defointly sounds like he cares about you an awful lot and i would say that yeah he does love you.
But you too are going out aren't you? So surely he should of loved you from the start of your relotionship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): I believe when you do love someone you just can not see a future without them in it.
Love is more action that word. While his words may be sweet and genuine;his actions will tell you everything.
If he is actually increasing his affection and attention after 3 years, I would say he is still interested:) Three years and you are just now wondering if he is in love...chances are he has been for a long time and you just havent noticed until now? You are exclusive and nurturing to each other. Enjoy it and do not worry about labeling it.
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