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writes:Hi everyone please help me out. I've been dating this guy for two months now, and he constantly keeps joking around about wanting to sleep with my aunt and he constantly keeps saying how sexy she is, when he does it and notices that I'm upset, he always say that he's just trying to aggravate me so I can get all I worked up, I've talked to him already about it several times, I've asked him if he likes her then he should go be with her and not let me waste any more time in the relationship, but he always say that he's not going to do it again I'm the one that he wants but he still continues talking about her.He even looks at her pictures right in front of me just to get me mad, Is this a sign that he likes her or am I just over-exaggerating? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 January 2009):
I think it's a sign that he likes messing with you.
He enjoys getting you angry and messing with your emotions, and I think this is a way to control you. It's basically a tiny emotional slap in the face.
To me this is a big red warning flag that he has problems.
Think very carefully about other behaviours he shows. Does he like to play mind games? Does he like to control you in even tiny ways?
If I were you then I would wait till the next time he does it and then just tell him that you don't want to be with a guy who tries deliberately to do something that hurts you and that it's over.
Then walk away and find a guy who actually enjoys doing nice things for you rather than trying to hurt you.
Good Luck!! xx
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