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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half months maybe a little longer, we're really madly in love, to me he's perfect, everything I want in a guy, I want to spend my life with him but just recently I had these thoughts telling me I don't love him and it really hurts me to think them because I know I do!Anyway over 2/3 days I've told him about it and he says its probaly horomones and I agree because sometimes I'm really happy then other times I'm just feeling down, it's annoying because I'm normally a really content person. Last time I was on my period I had the pains before I was due on so I've thought that maybe this time I might be having serious mood swings that are causing me to doubt my feelings about everything not just him.Normally I love life but at the moment I think it sucks but nothing is going wrong in my life, I just seem to be having these moments where I don't feel myself at all!Could these stupid thoughts be part of any pregancy horomones or period horomones?
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (23 August 2007):
Never, ever, ever ignore your emotions. They are signals to us that we need to do something. Even if it's just to reflect on how we are feeling. I can't tell you how you are feeling, so you have to tell us. Do you feel fear, anger, frustration? You are right to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If you are trying to get pregnant..."STOP!", wait until you are married. I you don't wait, consider this as a worst case scenario...You are 40 and aging (saggy boobs), divorced and have a 20 year old child that hates you for the life you didn't give them. You are a young girl, maybe you are considering that there might be a life that you want to experience before you "settle down". Listen to your heart.
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