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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been going to physiotherapy for the past week because I injured my hip and lower back. I think my physiotherapist (26 years old, single) is flirting with me but I am not sure. - He is always smiling at me- He asks a lot of personal, getting to know you questions (where do you live, how many siblings, what sports do you do, what plans do you have for the holidays...)- When I am lying down on my stomach on the bed, he puts one of his hands right next to my face and the other one is massaging my lower back (sometimes he strokes my arm)- He laughs at things I say, some that aren't even funny- He sits really forward and leaning back and with his legs open so then it kinda makes me wanna look at his d***Is he flirting with me and if he is should I flirt back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): if you like him, flirt back let him know that you like him...it's really hard for us guys, we want to tell you women that we are attracted to you but are afraid of rejection and anger/so please, we send you all messages that tell you that we are attracted to you please respond
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Based on what you've said here I would say no; but I think you certainly fancy him. From what you've said he hasn't done any outright flirting and I think you are reading WAY to much into what he's doing- I mean, how can asking how many siblings you have possinbly be construed as flirting?
He is probably trained to be friendly and chatty with people as part of his job. You yourself say that you want to look at his "d***", I think the attraction is coming from you. I kind of have the feeling you are putting 2+2 together and coming up with 5.
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male
reader, PM +, writes (3 July 2010):
He may be flirting with you, he may not be.
The more important question is: are you attracted to him?
If you are then you should flirt with him regardless of whether or not he's flirting with you.
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