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writes:If you have read my previous postings you will know that my husband of 32 years had a text affair with a colleague who works at different premises. It has definately stopped but he still has to see her at meetings and tonight is the AGM. I am sitting here in a cold sweat thinking of them 'together' and wondering if she is trying to attract him back as one text said she didn't mean to fall for him the way she had. We have both been ill over it all and I 100% believe he regrets it to the core and I know he adores me. In spite of this I keep wondering if he could be tempted again especially as she is 18 years younger than me (she is married). Please help me get through the evening!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for your words of support xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Only you can decide if you trust your husband enough not to be tempted. You cannot sit there and think will he wont he? You will drive your self mad and make yourself ill the more you think about it the more worked up about it you will get.
He stopped it before and you stayed together he would not be stupid enough to risk your marriage again.
You need to relax go run yourself a nice warm bath with bubbles and a nice glass of wine and just relax before you make yourself sick with stress, i know your worried but you both new that your husband would have to see this woman because of work but if you love and trust him enough to get through this then you can manage to get through this meeting and it will get easier with time.
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