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writes:I am begining to think my girlfriend is a lesbian.We have dated for 5 years , and we have been abstaining until last month, when we finally had sex.She did not like the sex,so i assumed because it was the first time she has had it .However i know she has a girlfriend whom she has known for years, and they are really close.She calls her love, honey, sweetheart and all those edearments .Everyone who meets the two, think they are gayand m sure for a fact, that their relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2015): Give her time.You just had sex with her for the first time slow down.She may have been a virgin.If she was let me tell you the first time for a girl hurts like hell.You have no idea the pain that goes on down there.You need to let her know you love her and you must try to gently talk about it.Maybe you together read up about sex and learn ways to slowly ease her into it without the pain.And the girl thing?You make me laugh.Girls are just venus boys are mars.That means they are just best friends.She picked you now trust her.Be loving and kind take your time and educate yourself so you can learn how to treat a lady if you love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2015): Ask her what she didn't like about the sex and what she'd like to try out.
She may or may not be gay but you asking her the question is probably not going to get a yes from her. Whether she is or she isn't, she has chosen to remain in a relationship with you for the last 5 years and she's had plenty of opportunity to tell you if she was ready to come (if indeed there is any coming out to do).
The only thing you can do is work on the sex and ask her if she's fulfilled emotionally in the relationship.
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reader, Pureflame  +, writes (4 September 2015):
Really, if that's all that makes you think that they are gay. It's really not enough. Why don't you just go and ask her if you have doubts??
Cuz really. I'm really close to a girlfriend of mine & we call each other endearments. But BOTH of us are straight. Maybe your gf was just shy. Just ask her instead of making it a big deal.
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