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writes: i think i'm in love with this girl but she turned me down the last time i asked her out, we have so much in common so how should i talk to her about it or ask her out again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (13 January 2006):
 I once worked for this company, I asked after 90 days,for a raise and was denied, I didn't ask again for 2 years. When I finally asked after 2 years they said of course and gave me the maximum+. When I asked them why I got so much they said you have seniority. I said then why didn't I get it earlier; they said "you didn't ask". Point being "nothing ventured; nothing gained". Get off your horse and ask her politely. You could even joke around about it and say something like "You remember that time I asked you out"? he he "Have you changed your mind yet"? "What are you waiting on Christmas"! Or there's the subtle approach. I'm going friday to this movie I heard is cool, wanna hang out with me then? However you do it: JUST DO IT. One day if you don't, she'll be gone, you'll be gone; whatever the case might be and you'll never know, what might have been.
GOOD LUCK
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (13 January 2006):
 Try being her friend first. She already turned you down once. You don't want to come across as being desperate or pushy.
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