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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my half brother really angers me. this evening when he came by to talk to my dad about his job, his attitude towards me was very unwelcoming when he step foot in my house. This evening i told my half brother, why he took his anger out on me? he said to me i didn't know that i did, and if i did i'm sorry. my half brother knows he took his anger out on me. this really pisses me off. About the time he was leaving i said you left you starbucks cup here. out of no where my dad just randomly yells and gets mad at me. i don't why he got mad at me. from this point on i really hate my half brother. i want him out of my life. i don't want him here for the holidays. i want my dad to not invite him and his wife, during the thanksgiving and christmas holidays because they don't enjoy coming here. especially the wife. both of them don't deserve to come to my house. is there any way that i could persuade my dad to prevent my half brother, and his rude wife from coming over for the holidays?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 November 2007):
It sounds like your brother has some major concerns going on in his life at the moment, his job for instance. He has adult worries perhaps and his mind is focused on those things. Your Dad is probably very concerned as well, so a coffee cup isn't a priority for either of them. Sometimes as a teenager it is difficult to understand the big picture. I'd just let your Dad decide what's best for your family at this point, that is his responsibility after all. Of course he will want your brother and his wife included in the holiday plans so just try to enjoy yourself and try to keep you chin up.
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