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*arianne507
writes:My neighbor and I dated awhile back, at a terrible time for both of us. We remained really close after we broke up, and even the people closest to us mistake us for a couple, and he never corrects them. I still care about him, and at times it feels like he still cares about me. Recently I was really sick and he was very attentive, coming over every day to check on me and sit with me and basic human interaction. The problem is that when we aren't in school we live 3000 miles apart, we also have different amounts of time remaining in school. Also there are times when he says things that make it seem as though he doesn't care. Should I cut my loses and try to get over him or is it possible that something real can come out of this?
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reader, Moi,x  +, writes (27 May 2010):
Talk to him. He sounds like he cares about you, vistiting. Okay babe?
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reader, Zanie  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 He seems to still show he cares but how much? We can't guess. Maybe he does care, but doesnt want a relationship... Maybe he is just being a good friend. You wont know until you ask. Unfortunately as scary as possible rejection is, you wont how he feels unless you ask.
If you really feel like this could be something, then ask. You know when you really like someone, you get that feeling and youre smiling because you know they'll be around. If he makes you smile and he's the one you want, then you have to find out if he feels the same.
Love knows no distance, that is for sure! However, I can understand your worry about your living so far apart in the future, but if there is love, you two will find some way to be together.
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