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writes: Is there a possibilty that if you at one point in your life thought and were convinced that you were gay, and then you become straight?My first love was a man, and I'm convinced that I want to marry him, and he's my soulmate.Is there a chance that I might change and become straight if things dont work out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): if you find a way please please tell me.[email address blocked]
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reader, smeedle +, writes (10 February 2006):
Well once upon a time a good friend of mine with wife and kids started to have strong feelings about men and he struggled with his sexuality for ages especially as he was married, he did then start to have some on night stands with blokes and somewhere along the line felt that the relationships with men were what he felt right with, so he broke the news to his wife and they seperated, later to divorce.
He then over a period of a few years had relationships with men, some of them longish time and others just for a short time.
Then he met this woman who started working with him and eventually they became close and formed a sexual relationship, they get married in September!
I do not believe that it is easy to determine your sexuality for ever, some people know they are gay from an early age and will always want same sex partners, others are not so sure and need to experiment, my view is that if you are this unsure you may be bisexual, all my friends that are gay have always felt that way.
Do`nt get too hung up on all this, you seem happy and in love so leave it at that, enjoy your partner and worry less about what may and may not be.
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reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (10 February 2006):
it is hard to tell frm ur email wat age and situation you are in you can be gay straight and bisexual thru the whole of your life it is always possible to have an ever changing sexuality go with whatever feels right at the time and don't worry, you sound like a confused person just go with what feels natural to you babe good luck xxx
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