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Could I be pregnant or an STD?

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Question - (8 October 2011) 9 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ptongirl3112 writes:

About a week ago I had sex with this boy called shane that I Am seeing ( it was my first time) we both really like each other but the next time he came round we wanted to do it again . While rubbing his penis I felt further up and felt a few lumps I got a bit nervous. When he rubbed his dick against me it stings so we didn't have sex. But I have been feeling different as I constantly have the need to per every few minutes and I have been eating alot, feeling sick and boobs are very sensitive. I think shane might of given me An infection or I might be pregnant but I Am not sure :/

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 October 2011):

Honeypie agony auntGo see your doctor and stop having sex until you know how to protect yourself from STD's and pregnacies.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (9 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntthat urge to pee all the time and the burning when you pee sounds like a UTI and that can for sure be caused by sex... I used to get them all the time... then i learned to pee both right before and right after sex... and wipe front to back all the time.

IF you have a UTI you will need to see a doctor... no doubt about that and you will need an anti-biotic because it's an infection. So you will have to ask mom to go see the doctor if you can't take yourself. but you must go. A UTI can move into your bladder and then it's harder to treat.

your boobs hurting... could be PMS... depends on when your period is next due.

as long as you are seeing the doctor for the UTI you should make it a GYN and get on birth control. when I took my 15 yr old stepdaughter to see the gyn for her first check up I was NOT allowed or invited back. It was between her and the doctor and I had to respect that... I hope you can go to your mom with this problem. if not, call your local planned parenthood office and ask for their help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2011):

To everyone saying she didn't have sex, it says in her post she DID have sex the first time but not the second time.

OP if you didn't use protection then there's a chance you could be pregnant or have an STD. Even with protection it can still happen. I think you should take a pregnancy test and see your doctor.

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A female reader, K_May United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2011):

K_May agony auntYou wouldn't have noticeable symptoms for pregnancy after a week. But there's obviously still a chance you could be. I'm unsure about STD's and the symptoms, but better to be safe than sorry, so I suggest getting tested asap lovey.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (9 October 2011):

Well you could have a UTI---hence why you have to pee every few minutes and it stings.

Is there a possibility that you could be pregnant? Yes. Is there a possibility that you could have contracted an STI? Yes. But there's no way to know until you get tested.

The symptoms you listed are pregnancy symptoms, but you would not feel them just after a week. So it's probably in your head.

Go get checked out for some peace of mind and while you're there get some condoms and birth control.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011):

No one on this site can diagnose you. You need to go see a doctor.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (8 October 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntNo no, Tennisstar - she had sex with him last week. This week they didn't.

Anyway, toots - the advice is still just as good. You would not be having symptoms of pregnancy after a week - but if you had unprotected sex, you're at risk for both pregnancy and STIs. You need to get to a doctor!! So, make the appointment... and while you're there, talk to the doctor about protecting yourself properly during sex - condoms, birth control, etc.

It wouldn't kill Shane to go and get tested too. If he was a gentlemen, he would have wayyy before putting his unprotected penis in you. So, why not make a day of it and take a trip to the doctors together?

Good luck, sweet!

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A female reader, StarryEyes101 United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2011):

StarryEyes101 agony auntYou have had sex with him. I'm not a Doctor but I haven't heard of an STD that makes your boobs sensitive or make you hungry. I think you could very well be pregnant. Go see your doctor!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (8 October 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntI doubt you're pregnant because you two didn't have sexual intercourse. Did his penis come in contact at all with your vagina?? It's possible to get pregnant from pre-cum.

I'm not a doctor and you won't find a direct answer here, but I would go to a local clinic for STD testing and possibly a pregnancy test. STI symptoms and pregnancy symptoms aren't related.

Also, if you're going to have sex..you need to be using a condom and be on an effective method of birth control.

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