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writes:(i am a 16 year old girl)ok, so for the past year now i have been questioning my sexuality. i have gone out with one guy before and that was cause i have never gone out with anyone before. that was in 8th grade and then i had to break up with him. since i moved i dont date any more and i wont date any of the guys in my school cause i think they are all immature. i have only girl friends and a few are bisexual. My question is am i bisexual? sometimes i catch myself watching other girls and sometimes i catch myself looking at their lips as they talk, and as I do I am thinking what it would be like to kiss them.does that make me bisexual? I like some guys but i guess i find some girls pretty.Am I Bisexual? I really have no idea. help me please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Hey, don't sweat it. If I were you I wouldn't even think about straight, gay, or bisexual. Granted, it's an important part of your identity, but who says you have to fit any of the above. Don't label yourself and just live your life. If you catch yourself watching a girl, then allow yourself the freedom to do so. When you're out with friends and see a guy that looks attractive, feel free to stare and burn a hole. Ultimately, my point is that you shouldn't worry about it. Concern yourself with school, with family, with friends, and if something develops with someone (whether it's a boy or a girl), then something develops. But don't feel obligated to find out whether or not you're bisexual.
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reader, justme..x  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Hey :)
I agree with DearCassy - don't label yourself. It might well be just a stage, loads of girls have curious thoughts in that direction. Even if you do get an actual CRUSH on a girl, rather than just vague thoughts about what kissing them would be like etc, it doesn't mean you are point-blanc bi or gay. It's normal. You are curious. You are hormonal. It will probably pass again.
So, what I'm saying is, don't close your mind and think that, because of what you have been thinking, "I'm bisexual". If you think that then you won't be considering anything else, and it could make you miss opportunities with guys, etc etc.
But don't worry about it, it's perfectly normal! Hope that helped a little xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): I personally think your just a little curious.
Your at an age where you experiment to figure yourself out, its all part of growing up.
Maybe try and experiment with one of your friends who are bisexual and/or talk to them about it as they will understand where your coming from.
But remember your sexual orientation is only a small part of you dont let it bug you too much, You'll figure it out in your own time.
good luck X
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I think you are just wondering what it would be like to kiss a girl, and it's not illegal to find girls pretty!! The only person who would know if you were bisexual would be you. Take time to think to yourself if you really like one girl or have a crush on a girl, but i don't think you are bisexual, i think you are just experimenting as a 16 yr old :) x
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reader, shadowre  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 wel, in my opinion, you are curious.
your young,and at the age of wanting to expertince many things, now i have no problem with bisexuals,i have many bi friends. i think your just trying to find something you like. dont set your sexual orientaion into one catagory because the teenage years are a confusing time full of experience, and mainly having fun. so don''t let this worry you. get out there and have some fun!!!!!
love from raychel =]
i hope this helps
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reader, Charlpop +, writes (10 August 2009):
 You might not be bisexual, just curious.
And just because you think girls are pretty doesn't mean you like them, and if you don't really know if you like them, I'd say you don't.
If you seriously think you are bisexual, then you could always try going on a date with one of your bisexual friends and see how it feels.
If it feels natural and good when they get close to you, yeah, you could be bisexual, but if you're a little uncomfortable I'd say not.
This may sound a little mean, but since you've only had one relationship and it doesn't sound like you enjoyed it that much, you don't really have a lot to base it on, so I'd say go for whatever feels right.
Hope this helps :)
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