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female
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anonymous
writes: Do you think this man still likes me ?. I saw him tonight, when i was out with another guy. I'm not dating the guy that i was out with. We have only just met, so we are friends, but i don't know if anything else will happen. This man asked if the guy i was out with was my boyfriend. He asked that a few times. When a man asks if someone is your boyfriend, does that mean they are interested ?. He asked if he was a friend or a relative though as well. He kept saying that he thinks the world of me too. I also asked that man if he will be out again soon and he said " i will if you will be out too ", and i told him that i will be out on Sunday, and he said he will too, and told me to go in the bar where i saw him tonight then, and said he will be there . I noticed he was staring at me when i was talking to the guy i was out with too, and he went home early, so i'm wondering if he left because i was out with the other guy, or if he was going to go home anyway. It's difficult as well because i like both of them !. I know since i'm not dating the guy i was out with, i could still date the other man. The problem is though, me and the guy i was out with did kiss once when we were drunk. I don't know what to do.
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reader, Beile +, writes (15 December 2011):
Hi there,
If the guy is persistent about asking who the guy you were out with is, and how he is related to you etc, that tells alot.
He does like you.
He probably left because of that guy you were with. Cause honestly, when you see someone you like with the opposite gender, they would feel a little heart broken. They would rather leave then to see you guys going out together.
Well, in the end you would have to choose who you would rather date.
Weigh out the pro and cons with both guys.
Due to a certain incident, which is you, kissing the other guy when you guys are drunk would definitely make you like him, due to the actions.
And plus, since you guys kissed when you are drunk, that like is most likely one-sided since he is just a friend of yours.
But this type of like is also short-lived. I suggest for you to pick the guy whom you really liked all this while.
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