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writes:Hi.. this isn't much of a major problem but more like one of those things, I guess. Anyway, I'm sure this has happened to many girls, but there's this guy I had my eye on ALL year before college closed for the Summer. I was SO mad for him, he's a good guy which makes a change from the guys I usually date.Well, me and him were so close before college closed, and when it did, we lost contact. Now we're back at college and I still really like him. A LOT. But he doesn't seem like how he was before the hols. Recently I found out that he fancied me probably more than I liked him before coll closed, but they say during the hols, he's moved on. I daren't ask him as he is unbelievably shy.I really wish we had got together but people say he has his eye on another. It's only been six weeks, how could he have moved on so fast and is there any way of getting him now? I could do with a guy's perspective on this as well. Thanks.Mel x
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 I've always believed you need to talk to someone directly if you want to know the truth as your never really going to find out anything hearing it from other people who probably heard it from someone else etc etc.
I understand he is really shy but maybe you could just try chatting to him with some light flirting and seeing how he responds to you.
Good luck :o)
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (1 October 2006):
i argree with camille he must thought was over good.
every one is diffrent takes people diffrent amounts time get over stuff not everyone is the same hun. i think there still could be a chance between you to i think your never to late if you both love each other you can get through it hun.
me and my fiance have had our share of problems and break ups and we have loved each other so much we have worked it out no matter what it was and were happy not every relactionship 100% perfect infact prob know ones is.
i think you should talk to him on your own tell him how you feel and you want to be with him all that you never know what mite say.
you mite get back then again you mite no what you gutta lose
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reader, camille +, writes (1 October 2006):
 I guess if he thought he wasn't in with a chance with you, he could have made the decision to get on with his life. I hate to make you feel like you're not that important to him,. but he's right to 'move on' as unrequited feelings are awful! Good on him I say.... Except that if you do actually have feelings, you must tell him. He may have his eye on another, but it sounds like he's still single at this point. He may be really happy that you have feelings for him. Don't miss the chance to tell him, you may live to regret it. Don't worry about him being shy, just meet up with him and tell him you like him. See where that takes you.
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