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female
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30-35,
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writes:I'm very upset with myself, I don't know if it's a big deal but I'm now upset. There was this guy that used to like me when I didn't like him, he called me boring and would try to be funny and say are you gay? I would ignore him but we go to school together and I get out late Wednesdays and I texed him and asked him what time he gets out, we ended up travelling home that night and he followed me to my house. We talked a bit and he tried to kiss me but I didn't let him. On Saturday I bought him something to eat cuz he had no money but he works and I know he puts all his money in the bank but I did it anyway. Now I used to like him, now it's only attraction but now I'm mad at myself cuz I'm thinking back how mean he was to me. So am I being too nice now and should I stop? Could he be blowing what I'm doing out of proportion and think I did that stuff cause I still have feelings for him because I was never nice to him before?
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reader, Playerinrehab  +, writes (8 March 2010):
If you like him why didn't you let him kiss you. You should stop
buying him things and start letting him buy you things. It's more than likely that he was only being mean to you in an attempt to make you feel attracted to him. In other words, the old mean to keep em keen card.
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