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*ykah
writes: I had a break up with my ex last three months but i just cant move on that easily. Every night when i go to bed i can't help thinking of him and by this i get too much pain. He kept on sending emails but i'd rather refused to reply because i find it more easy for me to move on then. How can i possibly do it as easy as it can? Please advice me a little bit so i'll have the idea on how to cope out with the pain.
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reader, mykah +, writes (17 January 2012):
mykah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just suddenly left him, maybe the thing is that we never had the closure of goodbyes that's why i'm still thinking of him once in awhile. Anyways, i'm now actually having fun doing some things outside. Keeping myself busy, yeahh your right fi the tree i already blocked him on my emails. And about getting back together advice man, it will never be that easy because i left him for a third party involved. I am very much relieved now, never been happy as i am now.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (4 January 2012):
I don't understand the case, can you be more specific? It seems you are not happy with the break up, you keep thinking of him and he keeps writing to you which means he is thinking of you too...then why not be together??
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (4 January 2012):
You need to be strong. Don't reply to any emails and cut all other contact with him. Block his email address and keep busy doing other things.
In time, it will get easier. All the best :)
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