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writes:Hi aunts, i am going to be straight up honest with you guys because i really need some answers.My girlfriend and i are now dating for about 7 months and things are quite ok we've had some ups and downs. Here's the thing: about three months ago i would guess somewhere in october or november 2010 my GF and i where having a conversation on Skype just the usual.Out of the blue she started sighing like something bothered her, of course i asked her what it was and she told me quite honestly that a guy on msn was hitting on her and asking her to come outside to talk about some problems he had with his father and stuff. She knew that it was just excuse to win her over to come outside so that he probably could escalate on her in real. She said to me: Well i know he's got bad intentions, and she told him that she didn't have the time and didn't really felt like going outside to talk to him. I wasn't really concerned about this whole deal because i truly believed her, she told me about the whole deal and that is on it's own quite a good thing. This weekend i spend a night at her house sleeping over having fun, she had her laptop on and i was checking out FB she laid with her head towards the television and her msn was on and i just couldn't resist to check that chat history with that guy, i read some really flirty stuff from his side and i some ways from my gf's side (NOT SEXUAL) it was never sexual, if it was, that would have killed me and i probably just would have left her house and ended it with her. At one point he said to her: can you give good massage's and she said: i don't know and she quickly changed the topic, they both used quite some hearts when they greeted and left... ( really hurts ) but the thing is i scrolled down and FOUND the point where he said the thing about his father and the problems and she actually DID say the things she told me. So the point where he started trying to get physical ( the asking her to come outside part ) in real she shut that down and didn't wanted it. I also noticed that since that conversation they never talked again and the chat log stopped so i guess that is a good thing. But guys honestly i still am very confused about the whole somewhat flirty talk. Please some advice i would be very thankful.
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reader, craig-1 +, writes (11 February 2011):
craig-1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea but why would she even talk to him like that: heeey honey(L) with hearts and stuff it really kills me
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reader, amandab  +, writes (6 February 2011):
the fact she has not been talking to him since means she is not wanting anything to do with him, maybe she did let it go too far and you have every right to be hurt. it sounds like she was telling the truth.
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