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age
36-40,
*im4aus
writes:Hi,I am so confused and irritated I dont know what to do. Approx. two years ago I was travelling overseas and I met a German girl also travelling, (I am from UK) and we dated for 3-4 months, spent days together, and was difficult to keep us apart. For reasons, (I went back to UK, her back to Germany and we were at different stages in our lives), we broke up, and the contact ceased up, more on her initiation then mine, and I was the most unhappy for days, I missed her like mad, and all I had was this burning feeling inside, and the break up did not do too well for me.Anyhow, she limited her contact to me for the next two years, maybe an email every two months, (would never give me her contact details), to the point where I had no control and got on with my life, until two weeks ago she suddenly announces she is in my country and wants to meet me, I had no objection as we spent some great months together. In this 2-3 day rendezvous, she kept pushing me into making body contact and hugging her, which I did and it pushed me back 10 stages as I realise I still hold feelings for her. Anyway, shes gone back to Germany and contact has been 1 text message since to say the least, kind of like she isnt interested.What does this mean? Why would she go out of her way to meet me for the weekend and then push me away when she got back home. I am now more confused then ever, the feelings are there, but were just buried for the last two years, and is this fair or has she just knocked all my progress away to forget about her??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): She has played with your emotions. Do yourself a favour and ignore any texts here on in. There is no point in being in contact and she's likely to text you from time to time to keep you on a string. Just don't bother with her anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): Emotionally needy vampire. Uses peoples affection to feed her selfish need. Or it could be cultural in that its a norm to not become emotionally attached to someone and just enjoy the physical contact.
Either way, shes toxic for you Dude. Cut her out of you life.
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