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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi people, sorry if this question is quite long but there is a lot to it.Me and my girlfriend have been together (on and off) for 3 years. We met when we were in our teens (she is 3years younger than me) We lost our virginitys together and this is my first really serious relationship . We have two boys together aged 2years and 3months.We were really happy at first, but after a year and a half she rung me on new years eve of all times, to tell me she didnt want to be with me (no explanation just she didnt want to be with me).We were apart for 8months, during which time she had numerous othetr boyfriends and also had several one night stands. I on the other hand didnt have any at all, except a relationship that lasted 2weeks with a girl i didnt even particually like. While we were broke up we still slept together (stupid idea i know) and she became pregnant with our 2nd boy (TBH not sure if hes mine or not there is another lad who thinks he might be his).We got back together and things have been going ok, but lately she seems really off with me.I work in a shop so can be working any time of day 7days a week, she complains i work too much and that i never have time to spend with her, but then when i do get a day off she doesnt want to see me.I get paranoid about her cheating on me, becuase of what happened when we broke up, i used to ring her alot when she was out with her friends but it really annoyed her so now i dont even text her when she is out with her friends. Basically im finding it difficult to come to terms with what happened when we were broke up, i feel like she has been able to go out and enjoy life and sexually experiment and i have only ever slept with her, i dont want to cheat on her but feel like i have missed out on something. i want her in my life and cant imagine being happy without her. The other lad (possibly babys dad) gets him once a week usually for 1-3 days, where as i only get to see him once a week. I see our oldest alot more.Its like she favours taking the youngest to this other lads, a few of my close mates who know that the youngest might not be mine have all said he looks more like me and my other son.Sorry if this is confusing its hard to explain it all.Any advice on what we can do. Thanks in advance.
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