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anonymous
writes:this guy fingered me and i love him to death but we broke up and now i feel like a slut because im only 13 and i let a 14 year old finger me but i love him to death and want him back he wanted me to have oral sex with him but i said no. what should i do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks yall,but he didnt break up with me because i didnt want oral sex. he respected me and i kinda let him finger me. we are actually really good friends now and we talk some.and thank y'all for the advice! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): You're really not a slut, but feeling guilty about letting this guy fingering you means you're still not ready to enter a sexual relationship. And like the other aunty said, this guy is a BIG jerk by dumping you for not giving him oral sex. Yes, you may love him, but he doesn't love you. It's the truth whether you may believe it or not.
If a guy just pressures you into having any kind of sexual relationship with him in any way (i.e. that says you don't love him if you don't do it, to prove your love, he'll brake up with you, etc.) that means he will not be with you after he gets what he wants. You better get out of those kind of relationships and suffer a little before he brakes your heart and self esteem and leaves you in a puddle of tears when he leaves you.
Please don't tose these advises as silly stuff. Next time wait to know a guy; wait at least 6 months in the relationship and know that he's there because of you and not because of his urges. Then if you see it fit, give yourself to him. And oh, always wear protection
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): so he broke up with you because you wouldn't give him oral sex???? He sounds like a jerk I'm sorry. If it makes you feel uncomfortable you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING sexual. He's just a little boy trying to act like a man, but he's not and you deserve better. Just hold out for that one person who's going to make you shine. Hang in there hun it gets better.
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